Tourist visa to USA & UK is nearly impossible to get. I think I'm looking at most of the living being in USA, probably could do yearly month long trips back to Thailand, to help keep him from being totally homesick. Have you done any research into the Visa possibilities? Words fail regarding the love and trust you have for your partner and likewise him for you too.Īre you asking is they are suitable to marry and find a fulfilling life with you State-side? You can find good young Thai men from the bar scene here but as with bar girls, you never know if you are getting a good one or a bad one.
However, if you spot a young lady who has better dress sense than Coco Channel and the most handsome angry young boy on his arm, move along because that will be me and the angry young man (J) and he will fight to defend my honour. It is packed to the rafters with some serious hunks. He is also extremely angry that these older men have savings because they actually worked legally and planned for their future.Īnyway, if you want to meet some real talent, slide across to the Telephone Bar in Silom Soi 4.
Since that day ‘J’ has always sworn revenge and has started his own posse called ‘The angry boys club’. I think it all stems from when ‘J’ was a young boy and he used to get abused by his Uncle CH. My man ‘J’ is 23 years old and he (and his friends) all hate anyone over 50 with a passion. I don’t think that young men are a suitable match for the older man.
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Toad I believe that you are talking about my man ‘J’.Īlthough ‘J’ does sway towards the male on male scene and attend the type of bars mentioned in the OP, the movie that you are referring to was not a porn movie, it was an adult male on male education film made to teach straight people of how to enter the gay life in Thailand. The bottom line question is: can a smitten falang detect which of the money boys have a good heart and can leave their money grubbing ways and become a true lover from the money boy who just cannot leave his money grubbing ways even after he has found the falang of a thai boy's fantasy? Many of the girls who send the money back to family work in the sex trade and never meet their sugar daddy. There was a news article this week about how much money Issan economy gets from falang married to Issan girls who go south to find a husband and then returns to Issan to start a family or who continues in the south sending money back every month to family. How different is that from a large cocktail party when a Doctor enters the room and all the females alert to meeting him as a good catch. Once found, as the fantasy goes, he is so grateful to his older falang for taking him out of a job he hates that he will love the falang until the end of his days with the hope falang will leave him set up for life when he dies.
"Pretty Woman" was a great movie about a prostitute who struck it lucky in nabbing a guy who had everything.Īs in most generalizations, there are so many variables that the Thai money boy could be a poor boy working in the sex trade who hates it and is just waiting for a good catch to come along. Do their sisters also desire to marry older farang men, and use working the girly bars as a means to get to that end?Ĭlassic question regardless of sexual orientation. I find that to be a strange outlook on future sex partners. Rather, as young boys at home, they fantasied about sex with older western men. Many have told me that they never had gay sex in their hometown with their Thai classmates, nor do they have sex with one another while they are employed at the Boy Bars away from home. will their hand be out for money constantly (payoff old loans, medical expenses, vehicle accidents, etc)Īre there better places to meet quality guys who are looking for real romance with farang with intentions for marriage? are they looking for anyone to take them out of Thailand to a more prosperous country (then they might change) are they likely to cheat, either for another farang with more money, or someone younger, maybe in their own culture, that they can relate to are they really gay, or are they so poor they are probably "gay for pay" Are Money Boys (escorts or prostitutes) from the Boy Bars in BKK, Pattaya or Phuket in late teens, 20's, young 30's suitable for long term relationships with older farang 50+, 60+ or more, potentially with marriage & moving overseas? Potential problems: